Stop Worrying About “Your Odds”…Just Go For It!
What are the odds?
I think most or a lot of us worry about …..”our odds”.
What I mean by that is I think we look at the situation in front of us at the moment and start weighing out our odds.
“Now what ARE my chances exactly……….. that I reach that goal?” What are my odds?
Can I really get to that goal?…What are the Odds?
Do I even bother to try?……. Odds are I could just end up depressed and defeated.
The odds, the odds, the odds… ………. FORGET…….. the odds.
I want to let you in on something.
YOU very much make your own odds.
That’s right. We do.
If you look at whatever it is you want to accomplish and it looks too big, too problematic, you know, too hard…
Right there in seeing your task or goal in that light you’re cutting your chances, your “odds” on accomplishing that task or reaching that goal way down.
Things can be so hard sometimes you can’t see a way out or a way to get to where you want to be. Life can be unfair and cold. But if you give up at that moment, let the fear and doubt win
You…….. and nothing BUT you ….are sealing your fate. You and only you, are determining your odds right there.
Not the problem not the difficulty and not the “other guy”…just you.
Only you can take yourself out of the running or the race . Only you can tell you to give up or quit. Only you can choose that path. Not matter how hard it can look, how hard it can get, how dark the future is looking, You and only you will be the last word on giving up.
Nothing and no one can make you quit or give up.
And no one else can decide for you to keep fighting.
So what’s it going to be ?
You see you can sit this one out…. if you want..
But the next time you try may be that one shot that will work. Or the next person you meet may be or be behind the golden opportunity that will get you closer to that dream than any other ever has.
You can dismiss trying again as just another failure waiting to happen, just another “let down” another disappointment….
Or you can keep swinging regardless of how you feel and go on that next job interview or send out another resume or even start another diet….
and another and another and another…
You get the idea…..
Something Else To Ponder
Another thing….The second your dream or goal becomes truly your focus your chances and odds become so much greater. Focus is one of the biggest keys to reaching your goal or dream.
You have to keep your eye on your goal because you never ever know which time will be YOUR TIME, your chance your moment.
How would you feel if that happened? Can you tell me with absolute assurance that your next try WILL fail?
Then How can you sit down and give up?
It’s too Hard ?
I ………don’t……. care.
Get up. Now.
Don’t you dare…… quit trying.
You owe it to yourself and the next person who, like you will come along and need maybe …….YOUR help. It isn’t always just about you…. or me for that matter..
Come on.. I know , I know I know I know. I have been there heck I’m still there. everyday I get up and try. Do I always want to ? or feel like pushing one more time or trying….ONE MORE TIME.
Sometimes….No. But the secret about that low moment…is
But If I quit trying I don’t deserve to win. and I deserve to win.
So do you.
You probably would tell me that pigs in pink tutu’s will fly before things go your way…..
Now, say it with me………
I won’t quit no matter how hard it gets. I owe it to myself to keep trying regardless of the difficulty. Regarless of a bad day or moment of passing fear or doubt. Because my moment can happen at anytime. Regardless of the height of that mountain I will climb it.
I will go around it,
even dig a hole and crawl under it, but I will not give up trying to reach what I know is right for me.
Because I have something the world cannot see or take from me…
I know in my heart …I can. I know in my heart I will.
It’s waiting for me. I won’t keep it waiting.
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